Yes, I'm supposed to be making this my year in words, and so far I've managed a few days and missed a few. Now I'm back on track and updating what has been going on. There are a couple of cool things. One - Meeting a new friend. Why is that significant? Since I moved to NC 6 years ago I have been so busy I haven't really taken the time to get close to hardly anyone. (With one very cool exception - Twanda). I don't have a problem being friendly, but establishing true friendships here has been a little challenging to me. I recently discovered that my daughter's friend has a pretty cool mom that I look forward to hanging out with in the near future. Second, is that I joined a group of women who play "Bunco." Its a fun dice game ( no gambling involved) where 12 women get together, eat, talk and play a game for about 2 and half hours. That's what I did last night, and had a ball. I'm still trying to learn every ones name and feel 100% comfortable, but I'm getting there.
One lesson that I have taken from my experience so far is that when you shine a light on something broken, its a lot easier to see how to fix it. And that's exactly what I've done. I'm shining a light on what I see is missing in my life, and am being more aware of how to fix it. Which I think is pretty cool. I'm not perfect, and some days I won't do anything to get closer to my goal, but I actually feel good that I am working towards that goal of discovering a new me.
Thanks for the shot out! Bunco! I'm so glad you found that group. Bunco sounds like a lot of fun. I like that you dare to illuminate what's broken. That's brave. You go girl!
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